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Dirty Talking Tips For Sex Chats

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Jan 17, 2023

So, you’ve decided to start talking to filthy-minded whores on the internet who want to orally rock your world without sucking your cock? You’ve made a good choice! It’s no secret that some of these filthy-minded dirty talkers can make you cum in your pants with ease.

After all, there’s a reason that dirty-talking sex chat lines have remained big business in a fast-moving world of increasingly high-tech porn that ranges from virtual reality to 4K resolution; it’s because sex chats are so damn entertaining!

Plus, they also give your eyes a rest from that visual dopamine hit that conventional porn gives you, allowing you to indulge in your other senses. However, despite sex chats being so awesome, most guys face a big stumbling block when signing up for one: What do you say to the girls?

After all, these sexual powerhouses do this a lot, and they’re experts, to say the least. However, with a few simple tips, you can bounce back and forth with these devil-tongued harlots to make your sex chat experience as interactive and pleasurable as possible.

Today, I’m gonna share some of those tips with you. Why trust me? Well, I’ve been somewhat of a connoisseur of sex chat lines for a number of years, and I’ve learned the hard way about what makes and breaks an erotic conversation.

Now, let’s get started! Do it in a safe place where you won’t be disturbed The biggest mistake guys can make when indulging in sex chat with horny women is doing it in a place where they’ll be disturbed. Trust me, if your wife or a general member of the public finds you out and cuts your phone call or chat short, it’ll somewhat ruin the experience.

Plus, sex chatting somewhere you’re not allowed will only stress you out, making it difficult for you to speak loud enough and think of filthy things to say to the girl. So, find yourself a nice, quiet, discreet spot and get stuck in with the sex chat girl of your dreams! Try not to dive right in You always kiss, or maybe even go down on a girl, before sliding in, right? Well, the same goes for sex chat. Girls don’t wanna be hit with the hardcore stuff the moment they speak to you, build up to it slowly and surely and make sure you’re throbbing, and she’s dripping by the time you get to the really good stuff!

Prepare well to avoid technical issues Imagine you’re midway through the filthiest phone chat you’ve ever had with a horny, busty blonde who wants to rock your world orally. Then, your phone battery dies, the signal drops off, or you accidentally close the chat. It happens more often than you think, but annoying stuff like this is easily avoided.

Make sure your phone is fully charged, ensure you have good connectivity, and, if you’re prone to accidentally pushing buttons on your phone in the midst of pleasure, put the phone on speaker and away from your hands and head. Stuck for words? Get suggestive! It’s not uncommon to be lost for words talking to a horny MILF or a perverted teen over the phone, but it’s easily fixed. You just need to be suggestive to the girl to get ideas, such as “which hole do you want me to fuck first?”, “what was your craziest sexual experience?, “do you like the taste of cum?” etc.

Suggestive questions like this help to get rid of any awkwardness, expand the conversation, and give you more inspiration for filthy topics to talk about. Oh! And speaking of inspiration! There are lots of places to get inspired for your first sex chat Regardless of how experienced or inexperienced you are with sex chatting, there are tonnes of resources available online to get some filthy inspiration for topics, vocabulary, and much more, such as:

Erotic literature - There are tonnes of free-written porn to indulge in online, and some of it is extremely hardcore, well-written, and a great source of inspiration. Good ol’ porn! - You can’t go wrong with some classic porn. From sex positions and role playing to storylines and sex acts, it’s a hub of filthy ideas to take advantage of. Sex cam sites - There’s been a boom in sex cam sites in recent years, and thousands of horny live cam girls are constantly vying for control of the leaderboards. They’re constantly coming up with new scenarios and filthier dirty talk to stay engaged with their viewers. They’re a great place to indulge in some inspiration, especially on popular and well-established sites. Don’t be shy when you cum! A lot of guys are shy about moaning, groaning and screaming out as they ejaculate from a dirty chat session. But you really shouldn’t be! After all, it’s the job of these girls to help you empty your balls, and some of their greatest job satisfaction stems from the sound of clients being thrown into sexual ecstasy from the words they’ve spoken.

So don’t deny hard-working sex chat girls the pleasure of hearing you cum, and feel free to get vocal, loud, and naughty as you do! Final thoughts, just say the word and get started! Wondering what to say to a sex chat girl is one of the biggest hurdles most people face before signing up for a sex chat site. However, by following the tips in this guide, you have nothing to worry about, and you shouldn’t let the nervousness surrounding what to say hold you back from the immense pleasure that comes with dirty talking sex over the phone.

Because, after all, this is one of the most pleasurable sexual activities one can undertake. There’s a reason that sex chat lines have been running for so many decades and, as a concept, have persisted so long into the modern day as an unrivalled sexual adventure that countless guys worldwide rely on to cum hard on a daily basis!